Friday, March 20, 2009

Bliss of SOLITUDE...



You get up in the morning...nothing seemz to be alright...you have got a BAD dream...You feel your head is too heavy on your shoulderz...You feel like this is the end of the world...You dont feel like goin to work...You dont feel like talking to anyone...You jus want to be left alone...thatz when your mind goes wandering for a small piece of solitude...JUS BEING YOURSELF, ALL BY YOUR OWN...LOST IN THOUGHTS...

I sometimes wonder...what caused this total mood off today..Why did this day start like dz??After much contemplation, I realize itz due to a certain something which has either caused you too much pain...or it must have been a misunderstanding with someone you dint intend to have..or its about something / someone you cannot change yet you want it to happen but your totally helpless...or itz due to the monotonous mechanical lifestyle that you possess that you feel caught up in a whirlpool of 'Timeless Dayz'...or itz about someone whose presence your missing...or itz sometimes jus NOTHIN... Jus a dull day!!!

At such times...I dunno if being alone is a boon or a bane...but I am sure it feels like Perfect Bliss...Goin for a walk down d lane...Makin your life stand still and watch the rest of the world unfold before you...Jus relaxin and watchin the zooming cars...changing traffic lightz...busy men...lonely street dogz...playing children...chattering housewives...chirping birds...soaking in rain...listening to some soft, boring musique...getting carried away in this BUZY world...in the thoughtless mind...

The best way to get over this state of 'depression' if i may call it so...is to either face the challenge head on and win over it...If itz a person - talk to her/him and sort it out... If your missin someone - meet up, call up..chat and speak your heart out...If you feel your being carried away in a busy life - take a break...go on a holiday...watch a movie...hangout with frnz and family...and finally if itz something / someone you cannot change ...WELL you just cannot do anything...but IGNORE d fact and MOVE ON!!!!

On the other hand...I also feel itz all in the MIND !!! If you wanna feel low..u will...if you wanna be happy..you will be irrespective of the situation...."What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve."...I do believe in this quote...coz Watevr you hold in your mind will tend to occur in your life... If you continue to believe as you have always believed, you will continue to act as you have always acted.... If you continue to act as you have always acted, you will continue to get what you have always gotten....If you want different results in your life or your work, all you have to do is change your mind...YES... DATZ RIGHT!!!

4 comments:

  1. "I die every-night I sleep , and wake up , a new person the next day " :)

    Forget and Forgive is the mantra for happy life , start everyday as a new day :)

    Never expect anything from life , so u ll be happy with whatever you get :)

    All this philosophy seems right but too hard to follow ;)

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  2. Right...Good to hear...and be printed in self help bukz i guezz!! "_"

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  3. Noted points :)Start thinking n we are all lost..thinking too hard will end up in a "bliss of solitude"

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  4. true man..best 2 take life as it comes...have no expctationz from life!! :)

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